In this photo, you see a younger attractive couple sitting on the couch. You see the beautiful woman (most likely a girlfriend or fiancé) giving a massage to an attractive rugged male who looks like he’s had a hard day of working. This image shows a stereotypical image of what couples are. This picture implies that as the woman, it is her job to care for her man because he’s the one who works hard all day while she stays at home. This reinforces the idea of the female as the caregiver and basically the man’s mother; and the strong man who spends his day working to bring home the bacon to his beautiful lady. This image is dangerous because in this day and age, these popular social constructs are no longer the common place. It is no longer uncommon for the woman to be the primary breadwinner while the men can be the homemaker.
When I placed this image into a Google image search, I was given links to websites concerning spas. These links also had information about couple’s massages. These results were what I expected when I chose this image because I looked at it simply as a couple and one of the members of the couple was receiving a massage. When I see images like this I do not think of it as somehow belittle one gender or shows how one gender relies on the other to care for them. I don’t see it in the way that this class believes I should react to this image. I tend to look at things at face value because I don’t believe everything should be turned into an issue. This is one of my biggest complaints with society because culture has become hypersensitive to everything that could be deemed slightly offensive or just something that someone doesn’t appreciate. This sensitivity has become of everyday life and has created the idea that if you don’t give everyone an equal share, then someone is being put out. I’ve grown to hate this because I am tired of everyone complaining about nothing.
I do see the internet as a normative place. The internet can be the most honest place one can go because of the anonymity that it creates. This allows everyone to voice whatever thought is in their head. This lets everyone see what the current power relations are by reading the uncensored beliefs of everyone and then compiling the data together to get an accurate image of the world as we know it. It can also enforce current power relations because many of the more ignorant members of the internet can project old ideas of the world. You can see how some people are still quite racist and misogynistic. This can be quite terrifying to realize that some people still think this way and are so unprogressive. I hope that one day people will get past old ideals that are terribly offensive to others, but I also hope that one day some people will learn to lighten up a bit.